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Friday, March 10, 2006

Recycle yourself ...


... my dad was fortunate enough to have a successful liver transplant ... it will be 2 years tomorrow, March 11. I remember that day so well ... bringing my very fragile and sickly father home ... just discharged earlier that day from yet another life-threatening ordeal of ammonia poisoning due to his diseased liver. He was home all of about 6 hours feeling very down and giving up hope ...5 months on "the list" is a long time ...(it's harder for us O neg folks to get organs) ... He got "the call" around 10:30 that evening ... get to the hospital now. The next 12 hours was full of hope, worry, tears, smiles, and intense feelings. Yes, he could have a new life or no life at all ... he went into surgery at noon and was on the table for 8 hours ... the Clinic transplant team is amazing ...they updated the family throughout the procedure ... His doctor came out that evening and spoke to us ... he was like God to me at that point! It's a damn miracle that this can be done. As I reminded my dad yesterday of his upcoming "liver birthday" and how we needed to celebrate ....he somberly said yes, it's a celebration but another family somewhere is mourning for a loved one that left them 2 years ago.... My dad sadly reminded me that another family will probably be visiting a cemetery somewhere on this day..... We don't know who the person was but of course we are eternally grateful to him or her and to their family for such a selfless gift ...

5 Comments:

At 2:01 PM, Blogger GLITTERGIRL said...

i am always trying to boss people into considering organ donation. why take it with you when you could be helping a dozen or so people live.

of course i am such an unhealthy specimen, i doubt anyone will be lined up to take anything from me. except for my fancy dining room set. i bet they'll line up to get their hands on that!

 
At 2:14 PM, Anonymous Anonymous said...

Ahh.... my little glitterbean ... everyone wants that great dining room set ... i hear ya on the unhealthy specimen ... hmmm ...my only "good" parts can't be recycled!

 
At 4:22 PM, Blogger Unknown said...

Here's what John Prine had to say about it:

Woke up this morning
Put on my slippers
Walked in the kitchen and died

And oh what a feeling!
When my soul went thru the ceiling
And on up into heaven I did ride

When I got there they did say
John, it happened this way
You slipped upon the floor
And hit your head

And all the angels say
Just before you passed away
These were the very last words
That you said:

Please don't bury me
Down in that cold cold ground
No, I'd druther have 'em cut me up
And pass me all around

Throw my brain in a hurricane
And the blind can have my eyes
And the deaf can take both of my ears
If they don't mind the size

Give my stomach to Milwaukee
If they run out of beer
Put my socks in a cedar box
Just get 'em out of here

Venus de Milo can have my arms
Look out! I've got your nose
Sell my heart to the junkman
And give my love to Rose

Give my feet to the footloose
Careless, fancy free
Give my knees to the needy
Don't pull that stuff on me

Hand me down my walking cane
It's a sin to tell a lie
Send my mouth way down south
And kiss my ass goodbye

 
At 8:16 PM, Anonymous Anonymous said...

Thanks Anthony ... that was um interesting :o) My dad actually got a t-shirt from the clinic ...very cheesy ... "thanks to a special giver, I got a new liver" at the CCF ...it had a smiling liver-person with a big bow across it ...

 
At 2:19 PM, Blogger GLITTERGIRL said...

that's my favorite john prine song!!!

my other favorite song on the topic of dying is kasey chambers' "we're all gonna die someday":

We're all gonna die someday lord
We're all gonna die someday
Mama's on pills daddy's over the hill
But we're all gonna die someday

Well it hurts down here on Earth lord
It hurts down here on Earth
It hurts down here cause we're running out of beer
But we're all gonna die someday

We're all gonna die someday lord
We're all gonna die someday
Mama's on pills daddy's over the hill
But we're all gonna die someday

Well all of my friends are stonned lord
All of my friends are stonned
Janie got stonned cause she couldn't get boned
But we're all gonna die someday

We're all gonna die someday lord
We're all gonna die someday
Mama's on pills daddy's over the hill
But we're all gonna die someday

Well they can all kiss my ass lord
They can all kiss my ass
If they want to kiss my ass well they better make it fast
'Cos we're all gonna die someday

 

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